Do You Hurt Her?

We never seem to imagine how much we can hurt a woman. So intensely! Extremely in depth! How can you humiliate or abuse mentally or physically a woman who openly professes her love to you! Guys: most of us have no idea how much pain we put a woman through. If the same is intolerable to us, obviously we have no rights to inflict or blow her heart so hard.

A woman's love is very precious. She is delicate and pure, much like a flower, beautiful and calm. She gives all of herself to you. All her dreams, ambition and desire stop by you. Sacrificing completely her to you, for your happiness and make sure that the ones she loved is taken care of and protected, she makes you feel like a superhero. She bestows her life to you without being selfish, and the only thing she wants in return is to make her feel like a heroine... Your heroine.

There are some men who can understand what it means to be loved by a woman and appreciate it. They vow not to hurt or betray a woman and they don't. But there are some other men, who just don't care. Their ego and tenaciousness makes them feel like a man. They are cold and heartless. How can you slap a woman! How do you punch her, kick her, drag her to the ground until she no longer responds? How can you say that she is not fit for you? She is a waste in your life. She is nothing to you. How could you see her bruises and feel proud? Is this the way to prove yourself as a man? You think of yourself, "Yes, I'm a man. I have complete control over her". Is that what a relationship is about?

Some women are abused mentally and verbally also. Their heart and soul is stabbed often with the words sharper than knives. How could a man forget those words of his you shared or meant before getting into the relationship? Did you use those sweet romantic lines to impress her or trap her?

The most Interesting part is... even after all the mess the woman still loves. She believes: love is an art of endless forgiveness. She forgets the fault, betrayal, cruelty and everything except the happy moments she had enjoyed with him. She tries to fix every mistake. She does everything on her part. She thinks if a woman takes care of her man, he will never stray. She always lets him know "he is the only man she loves". But the saddest part comes when she neglects to think whether the man loves him or not. She always keeps her intuition off and waits hopefully- if her love is true one day he will realize it.

It’s hard to explain but so true. Guys: how can you tell a woman you love her and turn your face around like that when she desperately needs you? How can you lie to her, betray her, cheat her! Why the hell you justify your actions? If you don't love her, why don't you go and find your perfect match and leave her alone? Why don't you allow a perfect man who can really appreciate and respect her love?